Relationship/Advice Thread

[Miss Forza Roma]

regarding your question Blaugrana you guys never dated or never really talked about a relationship together so how do u know she was in love with u or had feelings for u? If you know she did and then she comes back not having those feelings anymore then it's probably better to move on. Love never dies, if u really love a person even if your away from them you will never stop loving them. Me and forza roma were apart for awhile and i never stopped loving him and waited for him b/c i knew i loved him and wanted to be with him. So maybe these feelings she had for you wasn't really love but maybe a crush or passion towards you. Or maybe b/c she has not seen u in awhile she has forgotten why she feel in love with u in the first place. Maybe you should go and see her and see if u still have those feelings for her as well, and to see if it's still the same. You will know if its love or not.

[Super Pibe #7]

Originally Posted by Miss Forza Roma

Hi Super Pibe #17! hope i we can help, you said your girlfriend has joined the same forum as you, what type of forum is it? Is it Talk soccer she has join or something else?

LMAO

I was taking the piss out of you and forzaroma. Forget about me, i'm such a big knob.

Haha Pibe didn't know you had a girlfriend (you're probably joking though )

What i'd do depends on whether she knows that you are on that particular forum. And do you want her to know that you post on that forum?


I got another simple question. Say a boy and a girl were in love but they never dated (both too afraid to ask) and in july last year she went abroad for 1 year to study. When she comes back after that year, her love is pretty much gone. But the boy still loves her. Here's my question: how do you estimate the chance that the girl will fall in love again with the boy? Far higher than for any other random woman i guess? Or lower, because she's been in love with that boy in the past?

Was a joke obviously man, you should know, pretty disappointed with you now

If it did happen though i would change my username and tell her i got bored of the forum... or just ask the admin to ban her ass See i'm very honest guy

Blaugrana why are you asking other people about your love life ? Wasn't i your teacher ?

I would tell you what to do, but then Mizzforzaroma and anyone else reading this will get my gift.

[Super Pibe #7]

Originally Posted by Miss Forza Roma

regarding your question Blaugrana you guys never dated or never really talked about a relationship together so how do u know she was in love with u or had feelings for u? If you know she did and then she comes back not having those feelings anymore then it's probably better to move on. Love never dies, if u really love a person even if your away from them you will never stop loving them. Me and forza roma were apart for awhile and i never stopped loving him and wanted for him b/c i knew i loved him and wanted to be with him. So maybe these feelings she had for you wasn't really love but maybe a crush or passion towards you. Or maybe b/c she has not seen u in awhile she has forgotten why she feel in love with u in the first place. Maybe you should go and see her and see if u still have those feelings for her as well, and to see if it's still the same. You will know if its love or not.

He is chatting rubbish, never dated ?

I'm sure he told me that they were engaged, but she broke it off and ended up moving to america for a year.

[Miss Forza Roma]

Super Pibe #17 regarding your question i don't think having your g/f on a forum is a bad thing lol, but it depends on what the forum is, if it is something like TS you have to explain to her that this were you go to chat about soccer and that your not on here to do anything else. If u make comments that she thinks she is not going to like, let her know ahead of time what you ment by those comments if any, letting her know you are joking and ur not being serious. U never know you guys could communicate well on the forum, and you might find out more about her in the process.

[Miss Forza Roma]

ohh i see well in that case if they were engaged and then it was broken off, and then had some time apart, then maybe they should just see if there is anything life regarding the relationship. At least if they talk about it and each person knows it's over for good or there might be a last chance then both people will be able to sleep well and not be thinking and wondering about it

[Super Pibe #7]

Originally Posted by Miss Forza Roma

Super Pibe #17 regarding your question i don't think having your g/f on a forum is a bad thing lol, but it depends on what the forum is, if it is something like TS you have to explain to her that this were you go to chat about soccer and that your not on here to do anything else. If u make comments that she thinks she is not going to like, let her know ahead of time what you ment by those comments if any, letting her know you are joking and ur not being serious. U never know you guys could communicate well on the forum, and you might find out more about her in the process.

Doubt she will understand. We are not the perfect couple like you and forzaroma

ohh i see well in that case if they were engaged and then it was broken off, and then had some time apart, then maybe they should just see if there is anything life regarding the relationship. At least if they talk about it and each person knows it's over for good or there might be a last chance then both people will be able to sleep well and not be thinking and wondering about it

Well thing is i'm not sure ton(bluagrana) knows what he wants. He is pretty confused. He led to her leaving, by going out with a guy.

To be honest i think he needs to be proud of being gay. He can't ever really have a normal relationship with a girl.

[Miss Forza Roma]

Regarding you and your g/f i am sure u guys have a good relationship, and no relationship is perfect, everyone has fights and disagreements. How long have u been dating ur g/f for?

Regarding bluagrana, if he is indeed gay or bisexual maybe then he should take some time to see what he wants in a relationship. There is nothing wrong with being gay or bisexual, you just have to know what you want in a partner that makes you happy

[Super Pibe #7]

We have been dating for 1 year so far. It is a good relationship, but the forum is just for me, a place that i come to relax. I won't feel comfortable there if she is constantly checking what i say.

That's what i said to blaugrana, but he is too scared to tell anyone else what he wants. His family would disown him and then probably he would have to move in with me.

I ain't letting a gay boy move in with me.

[Miss Forza Roma]

Well he shouldn't force himself to date women if he is not interested in them. How old is he?

[Blaugrana]

Damn Pibe you told my secret. Now the whole world knows it Being gay isn't a good thing in Holland. Usually people are just calling names but sometimes they get really offensive. They start hitting on gays and sometimes even murder them. Being a gay isn't easy in Holland

That's why i'm glad that i met Pibe, i can tell him everything. He said that i can start a new life at his place. Finally. My family doesn't understand me so i think i won't be moving back often. Thanks Pibe, i hope we get friends for life. And maybe even more?

I'm under suspicion that the question you asked wasn't for your g/f (you don't have one since you're gay, we didn't meet each other on a forum for gays for nothing) but you asked the question for me. And i indeed came back to this forum like 2 weeks ago, don't you feel comfortable with that?

[Blaugrana]

Hahaha nah ignore all that ^^ Me and Pibe are always like that My question, like 10 posts ago, was dead serious though. About how i knew that she loved me? Well nothing is 100% sure but the hints she gave me were obvious. I was just blind, that's why i didn't do much with it. And i was hoping i'd meet her while doing out, which never happened


Ps Pibe should first prove himself to be straight I can't remember him having a girlfriend? Maybe he has a secret himself I had a relationship (with a girl before someone gets funny) until 2 weeks ago.

[Miss Forza Roma]

I am very surprised that holland is like that? i would think that holland would be like canada when it came to same sex relationships?

[Miss Forza Roma]

Well maybe you should call her and see if maybe she will mett up with u and go from there and tell her how u feel and see what she says. If she says no at least you tired.

[Blaugrana]

Originally Posted by Miss Forza Roma

I am very surprised that holland is like that? i would think that holland would be like canada when it came to same sex relationships?

Yeah nearly everyone is very open. I don't mind gays either although i don't think i know any. In Holland it's also possible for gays to marry, which isn't the case in many countries i believe

[Miss Forza Roma]

Ya here in canada same sex couple can get married as well. I don't have a problem with anyone being gay. As long as people are happy with themselves that's all that should matter.

So when do u think ur going to meet up with ur lost love?