Relationship/Advice Thread - Page 4 - TalkSoccer

Forza_Roma · 23-08-2007, 07:24 PM

Not bad....how many dates have you been on?

**jec1** · 23-08-2007, 07:29 PM

Well, It's hard to count. If your talking about blind dates in the past year -- around 4. I tried the dating sites, never worked. I had a prior relationship that took a toll in my work and I had to part ways. Love is hard to find, I searched and wasn't impressed. I always attract the opposite but this girl, she makes me smile. She is a little spaniliato but that's what I like.

I will do my best in making this work.

I'm 25, So I'm still young. No rush for love as they say. When everyone reaches the rightful age of 28, they become more serious about settling down.

Forza_Roma · 23-08-2007, 07:33 PM

I mean how many dates have you been with this new girl....but thanks for the info. Love is hard to find...unil one day you see her at a bookstore, right. Find people in the most awkward places.

**jec1** · 23-08-2007, 07:37 PM

Oh, We occasionally go out for coffee or watch movies. It's been going on strong for 4 weeks, So I'm taking it day by day.

Forza_Roma · 23-08-2007, 07:52 PM

Nice sound good...how old is she? Your age?

**jec1** · 23-08-2007, 07:59 PM

20 years old, though she is very mature. I def feel love but it's too early to tell cause I have to respect her feelings.

The problem with me is that sometimes I douse off and not take it seriously. I spent time with my sister yesterday, she's a great help.

Forza_Roma · 23-08-2007, 08:20 PM

Just don't jump into it too quickly...show her you care, but give her some space as well. If you come on too strong, you may push her away.

Miss Forza Roma · 23-08-2007, 08:20 PM

AWWW jec! i am happy that you ahve found a girl you like. But i would take it day by day be friends first then let friends go into something more get to know her first.

Forza_Roma · 23-08-2007, 08:22 PM

Just don't pull a Eric and Jessica with her lol Then we will call you Jec-eeko lol

Deuce · 24-08-2007, 12:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Miss Forza Roma

AWWW jec! i am happy that you ahve found a girl you like. But i would take it day by day be friends first then let friends go into something more get to know her first.

Be careful with the be friends then become something more strategy too many times I've seen guys become friends only for the girls to think thats what they should be and it just never lets the girls think of you in a romantic way after that. Of course it varies from girl to girl but there is a risk involved if you don't show that you are interested in her beyond just platonic friendship.

mr.watford · 24-08-2007, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by kyan

I think u should use the 9-iron, I believe u get more air with it and it's heavier.

thanks for the advice kyan. i just need to find the right moment to do it. obviously i want to do it in front of lots of people so they can see what a fucking bitch she is, maybe when we next go shopping i can do it then? what do you think?

Deuce · 28-08-2007, 02:41 AM

Simple question: Ask a friend's sister out on a date, yes or no?

Daniel24 · 28-08-2007, 02:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Deuce

Simple question: Ask a friend's sister out on a date, yes or no?

No. Things like this will spread quickly the girl won't like it when everybody finds out, and your friend will be mad at you. First ask your friend what he thinks and if its ok with him

Miss Forza Roma · 28-08-2007, 01:42 PM

I think you should ask your friend first before asking his sister on a date. If your friend agrees with it and his sister likes u i dont see there being a problem as long as the brother is cool with it.

Deuce · 28-08-2007, 01:43 PM

Sounds reasonable enough we'll see what happens